I feel so blessed to have had the most amazing experience of my life while in treatment and continuing on through sober living and aftercare. In my late 20’s, I could not stand to look in the mirror. I couldn’t stand to look my loved ones in the eye and see their disappointment in me. After nearly ten years of being broken with addiction, I had the sudden revelation that if I continued the way I was, my life would surely end. The joy that I had once felt for every day had somehow been lost. I was completely consumed by getting and using, getting and using. I had destroyed my relationship with my family, and I shamefully avoided all my friends that mattered most.
I was in a wilderness therapeutic program for just shy of 90 days. At around two weeks in, I began to love the things that once brought me joy. These things were hard to discover, because they had been gone for so long.
I started to draw. I started to play guitar and sing again. I wrote some of my most important journal excerpts of my entire life during this time. I started to let people in. The friends I made there are some of my best friends today. I have seen them become nurses, enter school to get their PhD to become doctors, held their hand after their first child was born and watch them become the most amazing mothers. You see, addicts are not weak. We are not ignorant. We were just at one time sick, but we’re getting better.
My sober living aftercare protected all that I learned in treatment. I was not ready to be on my own. It took me a long time to get as bad as I was, and it was going to take a lot of help to get me out, one day at a time.
I have spent nearly the last 6 years of sobriety getting back what addiction took away from me. I have worked in the recovery field in many areas, including direct care at multiple primary treatment programs, bedside in a psychiatric unit as a certified nursing assistant, and more recently working with clients and families as an admissions counselor for a young adult program.
My life now is something I would have only dreamed of having years ago. The rewards of my recovery keep coming daily. It only gets better and better, and I anxiously await to watch this process happen with the young women of Ember Lodge.
This way of life has become a dream come true. I am forever grateful for my gift of sobriety… but as we learn in recovery, the only way to keep this gift is to give it away.
Amber has been a part of the Ember Lodge journey since the beginning. She is currently working towards her Certified Substance Abuse Counselor certificate through the state of North Carolina, as well as achieving a bachelor’s degree in Business Law and Administration at Western Carolina University. She is currently a licensed massage and bodywork therapist in the state of North Carolina. Amber has been employed in the recovery industry for five years and has experience working in a trauma treatment center, wilderness treatment center, transitional living and a residential, therapeutic boarding school. Amber has a deep passion working with those in recovery from addiction and traumatic life experiences. She has overcome much through her own journey and has been in recovery for almost six years. She brings an empathetic, empowering and holistic approach to her work with clients and strives to communicate to each that they are perfect, whole, complete and matter in this world in their own unique way.
Amber has been in the Asheville area for over three years and enjoys hiking, running, yoga, live music, socializing and volunteering at a leadership development training in her free time. She is born and raised in rural, northern Virginia and loves being in nature. She has a wonderful dog named Chica who often joins her in her daily life activities.
Sarah is a compassionate and experienced therapist. She began her professional work in 1995, specializing in the treatment of substance use and trauma with individuals and families. She has practiced in Brooklyn NY, Miami FL and Asheville NC and maintains licensure in each of these states. Beginning as a credentialed substance use disorder counselor, later gaining an MSW, and in 2007 Sarah became a Certified Traumatologist.
Sarah provides therapeutic support and trauma treatment for individuals and families in an outpatient setting. Due to being in practice for an extensive time, she is able to incorporate a wide variety of evidenced based practices in traditional relationship centered therapy. Sarah is also able to employ TIR and EMDR as effective and complimentary trauma focused interventions. Attachment, boundaries and effective communication in relationships, especially for adoptive children and families that have had crisis, is an integral part of her assessment and treatment process.
Even though it has been over 20 years in clinical practice, she remains honored and humbled by the trust and vulnerability that occurs in the context of the therapeutic relationship, especially valuing the process of witnessing the growth and development of individuals and families.
Daire was born and raised in North Carolina and moved all throughout the state before finally migrating to Asheville in 2013. To her, the mountains represent an opportunity for exploration and rejuvenation. Due to forces greater than her own, she found herself on a path of recovery and self-discovery. She has an educational background in Biological Sciences and Pharmacy, which she incorporates in ways that foster healing throughout the recovery process. As a mentor, she uses her own experiences to share guidance that both peace and purpose can be found. In her free time, she enjoys reading, powerlifting, theatre, and exploring the waterfalls of the Blue Ridge Parkway.
Originally from the coast of North Carolina, Laura made her way to Asheville in 2011 for sober living through residential treatment. The amazing sober community of Asheville facilitated her sobriety. With the stability gained from sobriety Laura successfully worked in management for five years. Now she is pursuing her education. Laura’s ultimate goal is to obtain a master’s degree in counseling. While studying at the University of North Carolina Asheville, Laura works part time as a recovery mentor. With six years of sobriety, Laura enjoys sharing her experience with our clients and guiding them along their own path. When she’s not otherwise occupied you can find her hiking around Western North Carolina, usually with a pack of dogs in tow.
Kathie completed her undergraduate education in English Literature from the University of Michigan before earning her Master’s from Pacific College of Oriental Medicine in San Diego, CA. She graduated Summa Cum Laude with a Master’s of Science in Traditional Oriental Medicine. She has been working, studying, and training within the health field since 2001.
Currently in private practice in Asheville, Kathie is board certified by the National Commission for Certification in Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, and holds licensure in North Carolina by the Acupuncture Licensing Board. Her areas of interest include women's issues, anxiety and stress disorders, musculoskeletal and neurological conditions and pediatric wellness. She continues to further her training by attending seminars in her field, specifically in the area of vibrational sound healing through Acutonics, a health system based on the use of sound frequencies that is steeped in Taoist philosophy and Classical Chinese Medicine.
She lives with her husband Tyson and two sons, and enjoys spending lots of time with them exploring rivers, sitting on mountaintops, creating music and taking in the natural and cultural beauty of Asheville.
I hold a Masters of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Appalachian State University in Boone, North Carolina. I concurrently completed coursework in Addictions Counseling and earned a Post-Graduate Certificate in Expressive Arts Therapy. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist Associate in the state of North Carolina. Since 2014, I have been a continuing education student with the Appalachian Gestalt Therapy Institute. I have received training in Rites of Passage work through the School of Lost Borders at their Big Pine, California location. To support the wilderness components of my work I am medically trained as a Wilderness First Responder.
Liz joins the Ember Lodge team as a Recovery Mentor. After attending Vanderbilt University, Liz has spent the last two years working in direct care as a certified Recovery Coach and is currently pursuing her licensure as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. She is passionate about leading women to addiction recovery, behavioral, and mental health. Liz hopes her devotion to both constantly learning and bettering herself will be an inspiration to clients. Originally from Atlanta, she moved in order to explore the natural beauty that Asheville has to offer. Liz places high importance on authentic, whole-hearted living and enjoys spending her free time outdoors with her loved ones and two dogs.
Ashley is a hypnotherapist who is dedicated to helping others find lasting freedom from suffering. She has been exploring and practicing many healing modalities for the last 20 years and is always finding fun and expressive ways to share these practices with others. Making art and staying deeply connected to nature are two of her favorite ways to maintain a joyful and playful relationship with life.
Sharon Dubuc teaches our Nourishment in Recovery groups, working with the women in the kitchen and the garden to build a strong, positive and empowered connection to food. She believes in the inherently therapeutic power of food, whether seed or dressed plate, as an integral part of the healing process in Recovery. She draws on her experience as a chef and farmer to both educate and inspire the women she works with. When she is not teaching, Sharon enjoys shepherding her flock of sheep, feeding her family and walking in the woods.
Janet Frost was born and raised in central Florida. Janet began her career as an EMT for Pinellas county and later Wake County EMS. After four years, she made the transition to youth advocate at a domestic violence shelter. Feeling called to the mountains, Janet made the decision to move to Asheville and accepted a mentor position at girls therapeutic boarding school. Over the years, Janet has learned how to cultivate and tap into a sense of inner peace which allows her to be fully present with others during times of stress. Janet is an artist and dreamer. She loves to explore the woods, wildcrafting and connecting with others through creative expression.